Bharat, Hindustan and Westernization….Are we really ready to accept western culture

Confusion, confusion and confusion, that’s all we have right now. We Indians are confused to be modernized, westernized or remain with our original Indian culture. We have stepped our one foot in western boat bout don’t want to step out our other leg from Indian culture. This confusion is dramatically influencing our society. The criminal cases, crime against women, all are result of this confusion. Both culture whether it is Indian or westernization or any other culture of world are great. We cannot say that this culture is bad or this culture is good. All cultures have their qualities, all cultures are developed by us , Human. But thing is that are we ready to move from one culture to another. Change is inevitable, we will surely move from our culture to western as we all are very impressed with western culture and trying to be like them. In first attempt we usually think about things favorable to individual. Let’s start with a boy point of view. A boy want to be westernized, he want a girl friend who can roam around him, with whom he can enjoy sexual pleasure. He wants that his choice for marriage will be accepted by his parents, his relatives. He wants to roam in nights with his friends or female friends. He can wear anything he likes. We can say that a boy wants to be totally westernized. But things changes dramatically when it comes to his sister or daughter. He never wants that his sister or daughter should have a boyfriend. He never like his sister to go in clubs in short dress, He wants to see other girls in short dresses, but never wants his sister should wear such types of things. Now case of girls they want to wear short dresses, they want to expose . But her minds turned into Indian when a guy tries to checkout the things she is trying to expose. Then why she is wearing these types of dresses?  What she wants from our society. I am not apposing western culture, or girl’s choice of dresses, but I just want that she should decide whether she wants to be westernized or not. Is she is ready to handle such situations. One more thing I used to see on cities, even in metros, Girls like to wear  t-shirt with some crazy quotations and at the same time, they used to cover their face!! I am always confused about her mentality, what she wants? Is she thinks that her face is too private and it should not be seen by others and  her other body parts can be seen by anyone!! Now comes to parents point of view they wants their children should be westernized they can study anything they want, they should be capable to take decisions. But when it comes to children most important decision of live MARRIAGE; they just want it should be organized by them, not by their children. Bride or groom should be of their choice. Is it fair?

To conclude it’s the, when we should decide what we want, whether we should adopt western culture or and leave our Indian culture or turned back to our own Indian culture. Because both culture cannot sustain together. If we have to ends our social issues, we have to decide………

                                                         …………..Vishwa Pratap Singh………..

BHARAT RATAN: Is of No Significance now....

Bharat Ratna is for giving selfless service to Nation like Dr. Roa, like Dr. B R ambedkar , Like mother Teresa, C.V. Raman, Vinoba Bhave, Abdul kalam ajad.
I don't believe Sachin's contributions are of that order, for him to be awarded Bharat Ratna. He is merely a sports person, agreed a great one. But his aspiration to become a sports person was personal, not from any desire to serve country (I don't know, how being a sports person can be considered as a service to the country). Yes, he definitely did a great service to the game and he should be awarded whatever is highest award for that game. Even if you want to give this award to a sportsperson then why not to

• The five-time World chess champion Vishwanathan Anand.

• Dhyan Chand died 34 years ago, his legacy still continues. Dhyan Chand with three Olympic gold medals. 
• Amitabh Bachan and Dilip kumar.. who did for Indian Cinema..

How does "national service" or "public service" apply to his contributions? I don't believe his service to the game should anyway be misunderstood as the service to the nation. There are many people, who are doing far better service to the nation, selflessly.
Even Why not for Baba Amte, Tukaram Ombale the police man who caught Ajmal Kasav by sacrificing his life. It helped the country to turnaround the world opinion in the fight against terrorism.
From now there is no significance of this award for me.

                                                                                     ***********Vishwa Pratap Singh************