Confusion, confusion and
confusion, that’s all we have right now. We Indians are confused to be modernized,
westernized or remain with our original Indian culture. We have stepped our one
foot in western boat bout don’t want to step out our other leg from Indian
culture. This confusion is dramatically influencing our society. The criminal
cases, crime against women, all are result of this confusion. Both culture whether
it is Indian or westernization or any other culture of world are great. We
cannot say that this culture is bad or this culture is good. All cultures have
their qualities, all cultures are developed by us , Human. But thing is that
are we ready to move from one culture to another. Change is inevitable, we will
surely move from our culture to western as we all are very impressed with
western culture and trying to be like them. In first attempt we usually think
about things favorable to individual. Let’s start with a boy point of view. A
boy want to be westernized, he want a girl friend who can roam around him, with
whom he can enjoy sexual pleasure. He wants that his choice for marriage will
be accepted by his parents, his relatives. He wants to roam in nights with his
friends or female friends. He can wear anything he likes. We can say that a boy
wants to be totally westernized. But things changes dramatically when it comes
to his sister or daughter. He never wants that his sister or daughter should
have a boyfriend. He never like his sister to go in clubs in short dress, He
wants to see other girls in short dresses, but never wants his sister should
wear such types of things. Now case of girls they want to wear short dresses,
they want to expose . But her minds turned into
Indian when a guy tries to checkout the things she is trying to expose. Then why she
is wearing these types of dresses? What
she wants from our society. I am not apposing western culture, or girl’s choice
of dresses, but I just want that she should decide whether she wants to be westernized
or not. Is she is ready to handle such situations. One more thing I used to see
on cities, even in metros, Girls like to wear t-shirt with some
crazy quotations and at the same time, they used to cover their face!! I am
always confused about her mentality, what she wants? Is she thinks that her
face is too private and it should not be seen by others and her other
body parts can be seen by anyone!! Now comes to parents point of view they
wants their children should be westernized they can study anything they want,
they should be capable to take decisions. But when it comes to children most
important decision of live MARRIAGE; they just want it should be organized by
them, not by their children. Bride or groom should be of their choice. Is it fair?
To conclude it’s the, when we
should decide what we want, whether we should adopt western culture or and
leave our Indian culture or turned back to our own Indian culture. Because both
culture cannot sustain together. If we have to ends our social issues, we have to
decide………
…………..Vishwa
Pratap Singh………..